Take the quiz below to see how healthy your relationship is.
If you need support and advice at any time, please get in touch with the Stop Domestic Abuse service for advice and support on 0330 0533 630 (select option one for Portsmouth) or by email. The experienced specialist team is on hand to discuss your concerns and needs, 9am – 9pm Monday to Friday and 10am – 6pm weekends and bank holidays. Contact can be by phone or face-to-face in a safe location.
This quiz is aimed at adults who are currently in a relationship. We have an alternative version of the quiz for young people which can be seen here.
Is your partner jealous and possessive?
Does your partner check up on what you're doing?
Does your partner ignore you saying 'no' to sex?
Does your partner threaten to take the children away?
Does your partner put you down in front of others?
Does your partner criticise your body, the way you look or how you dress?
Do you change your behaviour to avoid an argument?
Are you afraid of your partner?
Does your partner make you feel bad for spending time with friends and family?
Does your partner behave like a different person when other people are around?
Has your partner ever hurt you e.g. pinched, pushed, slapped, hit, or threatened to hurt you?
My relationship now is what all relationships should be but I had an abusive relationship in the past and you can get out, please seek help if you feel you need it